Think about it… bareback is for riding horses
I’m no paragon of virtue and like all humans I’ve done some pretty dumb things in my time. Like the time I used to Banzai race at 2 am through the streets of Boston back in 1985 long before the term “Fast and Furious” was applied to a movie title. I remember in those days of my invincible youth there was a joke:
” Hey what do you call a bad Banzai racer ?”
” I don’t know what ?”
” Dead !!”.
The difference between me and others is I lived to learn the lesson and grow wiser.
In life people do what they know to do. It’s a journey from unconscious incompetence, meaning you don’t know, what you don’t know, to conscious incompetence, knowing that you don’t know. It is from this point we humans become accountable for the outcomes we manifest for ourselves.
Take for example hobbyists who are always looking for BBJ’s. These individuals never stop to think about the effect their actions will have on themselves but others like their wives and families. In all things there is a risk. If you cross the street, there is a risk. If you drive to the grocery store their is a risk. Life is full of acceptable risks. But has it ever occurred to you, MR GFE lover that the provider you’ve chosen (because you can manipulate her into a BBJ maybe even CIM) has had some else ” a head” of you ? OK let me put it in less obscure terms for those of you who are not “catching my drift“. Next time you’re Deep French kissing with your favorite BBJTC artist congratulate yourself for sucking another guys johnson and all of the viral risk it entails.
Now I’m not trying to perpetuate myths about the hygiene or medical health of industry workers. Quite the contrary, the facts speak for themselves providers as a group are safer than the general population. But what if “this one time, in band camp”… you come away with more than just a kiss ?
“You must remember this
A kiss is still a kiss, a sigh is just a sigh
The fundamental things apply
As time goes by…..” —-> Listen to song MP3 format
So time goes by as you’re now an oral incubator for a host of negative possibilities and like DICK Van Dyke you come home and kiss the Mrs., your daughter, hell even fido gets some love from you to. I think we all know fido will get over it, but your wife and others may not. Picture this for a moment will you ? Trying to explain why she has more than a “staff” infection ? Yep… that’s going to play real good at the up coming family gathering.
Next time when a provider makes it clear that she’ll be happy to share the love of a French cultural discussion but you’ll have to cover up “Pepe” be happy she cares enough about you, herself and your loved ones.
Which reminds me, this new trend of bare back riding if a “regular” riding student brings a doctors note attesting to his health status is just in my opinion plain stupid ! What are you people CRAZY or just patently self-destructive and selfish ?
Has it occurred to you Providers that your riding partner may NOT have your best interest at heart, but has shown the same Doctor’s note to a host of other riding stables ? Has it occurred to you that said Doctor’s note could be forged ? It’s amazing what $ 50.00 bucks to a high-school computer geek with a printer can get you. Has it occurred to you that Mr Nice guy when he leaves has the moral and character IQ of a flea ? (No offense to flea’s so please don’t send me hate e-mail) Here’s a point for you ladies to consider, if you offer this kind of service which by the way screams to clients “hi I don’t think very highly of myself” what kind of customers do you think you will consistently attract ?
What ?
You don’t think the I love to get away with as much as I can club does not have a newsletter ? Be real… if lately you’ve spent a lot of time complaining about the quality of clients on the Provider only boards, I submit to you, the source of the problem is what you are manifesting by your actions.
As for you guys who think a Doctors note is kool before heading off to the stables to ride the latest filly consider the fact, you don’t own the horse. You have no idea how many riders ran the cross country jumping course before you arrived. For all you know that mare has been rode hard and hung up wet …again and again and again each rider having his own note from his friendly neighborhood Doctor (laboratory). Something to consider before you “eat” a late afternoon snack. Dining at the “Y” where two branch’s meet in the brush under the tree of your favorite meadow.
But what do I know?
You’ve convinced yourself it’s your choice and your not hurting anyone….
Keep telling yourself that it works for you, especially when you have to explain to a loved one why it was worth dying for. After all what do you care, you’ll be dead and they’ll have to live with this fact.
Think about it people….. bareback is for riding horses.
Life is a road so be good to your follow travelers and walk in peace gentlemen.
Lee ^
Dream Cast Player
Most of the times, I’ve always gotten a BBJ, I’ve been confident in the women I have been with and I’ve been confident that they wouldn’t pose such a risk.
But Why even be in the hobby if you’re going to all gung-ho about BBJ’s?