In a conversation last week with a client who had just had his first experience with us asked me what was it that made our people so different ? To begin with I teach 5 principles of success during intermediate orientation after their first 30 days. I then went on to explain to the client what the 5 principles were.
In this podcast I explain the Dreams Escort model of the 5 principle for success.
I’ve been in the Escort Industry for about 15 years. In this time I’ve had the privilege and honor to observe many aspects of the human condition. People can in a philosophical way be converted to a mathematical formula.
You know, A2 + B2 =C2… if you already know A and C you can solve what B must be and so on. In a sense it’s really not rocket science if you pay attention.
The other day I was talking to someone who doesn’t work for me and she was asking how am I able to tell the winners from the losers with such accuracy.
“Well it’s simple,” I said. “The women who will be winners I can tell in the first 3 mins of the interview. You see winners all have specific traits in common just as losers have theirs.”
From my observations which many may or may not share, this business often attracts people with the least of amount of character, marketable skills and impulse control. For the sake of argument lets only take the lowest common denominator and ask where can someone with no education, talent or marketable skills make (net) well over $180.00 (figure is based on industry variances) an hour? This is NOT to say there are no smart, educated people with good souls in this business, there are. I hire them! Read the rest of this entry »
There are several aspects, which make up the psychological profile, which distinguishes the Dreams Client from others within our market. One of those nuances is the concept of investing within your self. Spending time with Dreams Associate to many of our guys is a reinvestment in self. This is part of what they need to keep going as they do daily battle with life and career. Human beings are hunter / gathers. It is the purpose of men to hunt and provide. Every man who’s had a decent father knows this. In today’s world the hunt has been replaced by our careers and or our businesses. The Dreams client is focused on his life goal and what it will take to get there. In his book “The Book of Five Rings” Miyamoto Musashi talks about a not so simple concept, which I have no doubt any successful Dreams client could understand.
Musashi calls it “crossing at ford”.
Approach your life with confidence the assurance of knowing what you do best (your strengths) and take advantage of them. Water never goes over anything it can go around, and yet, few things can stop it. In like fashion, the warrior must learn to recognize the most advantageous path before him. Musashi terms this strategy “crossing at a ford.”
“Crossing at a ford” means, for example, crossing the sea at a strait, or crossing over a hundred miles of broad sea at a bridge. Crossing at a ford as I see it occurs often in a man’s lifetime. It means setting sail even though your friends stay in harbor, knowing the soundness of your ship and the favor of the day. When all conditions are met and there is a favorable wind, or a tail wind, then set sail. If the wind changes within a few miles of your destination, you must row across the remaining distance without sail. If you attain this spirit it applies to everyday life. You must always think of crossing at a ford. [ Miyamoto Musashi, trans. by Victor Harris, A Book of Five Rings (New York: The Overlook Press, 1974) Pg 73]
Like I said, as I have observed Dreams clients gets this principle of life and business. There is no need for me to say more.
Comments folks ? Life is a road so be good to your follow travelers and walk in peace ladies and gentlemen.
To mediocre minded I merely run an escort service. To them we provide a service they can get anywhere and from their model of the world this is true. Unfortunately, for those who share this belief system they do themselves a disservice. Dreams Escorts doesn’t begin with being just a service ladies and gentleman, Dreams Escorts is actually is the philosophical end result.
Let me explain.
Dreams is my vision of what an Agency should aspire to be. It is the result of an unwavering set of principles, which in turn is manifested by myself and the women who join me. This will in three years or less create the reality of being the respected dominant leader in the South Eastern PA, MD and DC upscale escort market. The Agency isn’t “the dream”, the dream is a direct result of my shared vision.
I’m the kind of guy who doesn’t believe in shoving my head in the sand and I know entropy on a universal scale is an irresistible force. This is perhaps why I keep up with things. In the math equation called life society is an always changing variable. If you haven’t learned this by now you probably need to go stick your head back into the sand.
The women who work with me have entrusted me with their very lives. Not to be mellow dramatic nor to impress you, but to impress upon you the seriousness my reality. ( No pressure here huh ?) Therefore, it behooves me to a have situational awareness to the best of my ability as to the happenings in the world which would affect any decisions I make or don’t make.
I believe once again America is at a major pivot point as evidenced by the social, spiritual and demographic shift happening before us.
More and more women are choosing the Escort Industry as a viable vocation. The social stigma isn’t what it used to be as many of the pro-ported stereotypes are disproven. Bottom-line for all of the Dreams women this is their choice, they applied to work here. Most of them are in collage or college educated two of them hold advance degrees. Read the rest of this entry »
Now what was that old saying about Marriage I so love…. oh yea :
“By all means marry.
If you get a good wife you will become happy and if you get a bad one you will become a philosopher.“
- Socrates -
(Athens Greece BC 469-BC 399)
One of our clients is getting married soon. I hate to lose him as a customer since he’s a great guy who follows the rules, treats our Associates with respect and has never tried to pull any bovine e-coli. Yet, he and his soon to be wife have crossed that line I rarely allow anyone to cross with me in becoming personal friends. This of course means as of last week he and his wife will never be allowed to use Dreams again. I’m not in the habit of getting personal with clients beyond a specific point and for good reason which if you think about it is obvious. ( My friends can not use my service) However every now and again you encounter some genuinely nice souls you take a chance. Read the rest of this entry »
As a rule I find one Restaurant chain almost like any other. Take basic visual and tactile concept, attack it with a cookie cutter and spread liberally throughout the country until done or you file for chapter 7.
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