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The powerful, the elite and DC Escort agencies

The question was posed in a discussion:

How do powerful and elite of DC use escort services?

I am guessing the ones that have been around and charges at least $300 – 500?

I want to start using one of these more UP-SCALE ones. Let me know!

~ Anonymous

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Dear Anonymous

Let me begin to answer your question by using a metaphor.

A man walks by a pool and stops to look at a swimmer. The swimmer says come on in the waters fine. The spectator says are you mad?! I would never consider swimming in a pool  on a 45 degree day such as  this and walks off. The swimmer shrugs and says to himself, I wouldn’t either unless it was a heated pool such as this.

Sometimes, unless you’re a swimmer in the pool there are conditions you  can not perceive.

You asked:  “..do powerful and elite of DC, use escort services?

 

Yes,  more than any of you know.

Let me clue you in on a hidden reality of this pool. Continue reading The powerful, the elite and DC Escort agencies

The trend of Tattoos, asking clients what they thought.

From an April 2012 E-mail newsletter

 

The escort industry is in the middle of generational and business paradigm shift. Many of the old principles are discarded by this new 10 second sound bite generation and being replaced with a quick and easy mentality. Practically every little gutter rat ( Oh I’m sorry was I not being politically correct?) wants to call herself  “upscale”  in her Backpage ad  all the while confusing the vernacular of texting with proper speech. This is an insult to the independents out there who do classify as “upscale” and who are professional whether they advertise on Backpage or not. In short, professionalism and principles are now considered an anachronism to a growing segment of the market. It has been a challenge maintaining my standards in the current climate and to the best of my ability we will continue to do so. Yet, even I must concede in the war against mediocrity one must retreat on few fields of battle, to stay in the war.

Since the beginning, I have gone out of my way to maintain hiring standards especially when it came to tattoos. I don’t know what it is about this new generation however in the last year the incidences of applicants with tattoos has continued to rise. For those of you who are new, I only interview about Continue reading The trend of Tattoos, asking clients what they thought.

Is tweeting a bad industry idea?

As with any industry there are classic on going debates over a myriad of subjects. You have one group which takes the view that use of all social media is wrong and risky.  Then you have another who swears by it. Where do I stand in this on going debate?

Within an absolute mental frame work of reality I could agree with the  prospective social media is a bad idea, however I don’t. First of all, I’m not an absolute thinker and few things in life are absolute.  We’ve used social media rather successfully, however the latter comparison  is an end result.  Yet, an end result is not a process.

In my operational philosophy, successful  use of social media sites especially Twitter requires attention to the HOW more than the WHAT you do.

You can use twitter safely and successfully as long as you take into account several things:

1) What is your client contact and screening process?
Is it a lose as a Goose, based on your gut instinct and you feeling  he /she doesn’t sound like a state employee?  Do you go by a vouching system (ie provider references) or by a very strict background check verification method? Never lose sight the easier it is to see you, the higher risk pool you are swimming in.

2) Is your phone number on your ads and  you take late night calls or do instant appointments?  If you answered yes to all three   I would tend to suggest twitter may be a bad idea.

3) Is your face visible in your photos?
If they are, then it would be easy for any hotel clerk to recognize you especially if they are asked and shown a photo in an official capacity accompanied by a $50.00 to $100.00 bill.

All the above has everything to do with your business process.

First  maintain stringent business requirements , then limit the specific information you publish. Make sure all photos are face blocked and never say something stupid like : “I’m doing  lunch with me and 10 clients at the Homewood Suites in Tysons corner VA“  and you should be fine.  Be certain all accounts are done under a consistent business e-mail with absolutely no cross ties to any personal accounts. Never say anything in a tweet you wouldn’t  on a public board or could be legally used against you. Remember, once something is Tweeted, there is NO pulling it back. The internet as they say is forever. Do not succumb to the delusion you can just delete it and it goes away. Numerous Celebrities have learned the hard way, that is a false and delusional hope.

One last thing, and this is a personal pet peeve for me. I have NO respect for providers and agencies who throw themselves at celebrities. Case in point a California provider who constantly tweets several male stars trying to entice them in hopes of a future date.

To her I say:
Honey,  you’re 40 but give it up, George C and Charlie S have 20 and 30 somethings offering it up with a hard pelvic thrust for free. The only thing you’re doing is making yourself look desperate the rest of us look professional.

To each their own.

Lee Dreams
“It’s all about integrity”

Magnitude of stupid Rant!

(Click on the dog photo to enlarge)

No it’s not a photo of a new hire however I will admit after speaking with her for over an hour face to face I found my self wanting to say the caption to her. Those of you who are employers and take the time to personally interview your applicants you may relate to what I am about to say.

Is it just me {rhetorical question } or have they stopped teaching critical thinking in public schools? When did common sense go MIA? Hang on while I make a phone call and see if we can have an Amber Alert issued for it! Truth can only be proven by results and what does this say about our educational system. It seems the ability to reason things out is no longer a skill to be attained and honed. This new generation literally needs everything spoon fed to them including, often times the logical conclusion.

Then there are the applications I receive with lack of capitalization, spelling or punctuation. I often make mistakes therefore, I’m not a grammar Nazi. However what I’m talking about is scary especially from middle class educated (supposedly) college women in their mid 20′s into their 30′s. It would seem no one has instructed them a job application is to be taken seriously.

I was taught, “thank you mom”, dress appropriately when:

  1. Going to your house of worship
  2. Going to a wedding.
  3. Attending a formal dinner party
  4. Going before a Judge, Magistrate or loan officer.
  5. Job interviews.

You don’t arrive 20 minutes late to an interview because you didn’t look up the address, learn the time needed to get there, nor print out or write down the directions. You don’t wear jean shorts and platform stripper heels to a restaurant showing off your thigh tattoos you’re so proud of . Of course failing that, I’ve had women show up in 40 degree weather in jeans and flip flops with way too much glitter eye make up. In one case, it would have been a better mercy if she had arrived in a snake skin mini with a look that says; “Hi I’m still a 90′s hair band Rock groupie”, and I’m 35.

I’m not going to apologize for my standards, however it is getting harder and harder to find women who meet them. Our industry is in the middle of a generational shift and the next generation is here and it’s not pretty. If anything we’re sliding backwards and some guys see it as a price issue and are joyful. Yet the issue is larger than that. If a woman or anyone you do business with has low standards, low integrity and will compromise their rules for more money, do you really think this is not going to blow back on you at some point?

Good people are hard to find. Once upon a time it was a cliche, these days, it’s a simple truth for employers.

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Just because one is undead doesn’t mean they’re a bad person…. does it?

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Why Cat’s can’t be trusted!

Moron + Stupid Act + Idiot Independent escort = BUSTED!

Below is a news article and then afterward  my comments in the comments section. Those who have read my posts for a long time will find my comments ‘unusually harsh’. This posting was originally written for a different industry venue where I am known for not pulling my punches. After much thought I’ve decided to post it here as well.

 

Traffic stop leads to tip
Driver told police he visited home for sex
By Amanda Kerr

http://www.vagazette.com/articles/2011/05/28/news/doc4de04af663d27003184004.txt
Published: Saturday, May 28, 2011 8:33 AM EDT

JAMES CITY — An alert patrol officer inadvertently stumbled across an alleged prostitution business last weekend when he pulled over a vehicle driving away from the War Hill Green townhomes off Centerville Road.

According to an affidavit to a search warrant filed Thursday at the Williamsburg-James City Courthouse, the officer stopped the vehicle after observing erratic driving. The male driver told the officer he had just left a townhome in the neighborhood where he “was soliciting a female involved in Continue reading Moron + Stupid Act + Idiot Independent escort = BUSTED!

America’s Destruction

America will never be destroyed from the outside.
If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves.

Abraham Lincoln.

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